Ok...so it's not just because I'm bitter for not having someone. I am actually very comfortable with being single. I have a few more things to figure out about myself and what God wants to do with me before I go dragging someone else into my life. (However if you know of a single person who's just a little bit crazy, I'm all for that, so don't hold back).
It's not even because of the over-reaching capitalism. More power to the card companies if they can create such a stupid holiday and make people buy crap. That is the foundation of our economy. Figuring out how to make people spend money on stupid stuff. I love capitalism (except when it works against me).
Valentine's day is all based on the wrong ideas. First of all...you have this guy. A priest, Valentine. Some call him a saint. I would use that term loosely. Caesar ordered that no one serving in the army could get married. So what. You serve your time, then get hitched. Keep your pants on Rome. Let's also not forget that a guy with a family may not be so willing to run out into battle. And the big picture...he's the king. He can do whatever it is that pleases him. Yeah that throwing Christians to the lions thing wasn't so cool, but it's his army, he can do what he wants. So this Valentine punk decides to start marrying people. He gets caught. Caesar actually takes it easy on him...let's him off with a warning. I think that's rather fair. But does "Saint" Law Breaker take the hint? Nope...he keeps on breaking the law. Now, I can't really get behind the senseless violence that happens next. But Caesar has him beaten to death with clubs and then beheaded. Not only that, but he does it on the Eve of the Feast of Lupercalia. That feast was basically a pagen orgy. So really all of you "Saint" Valentine fans...really you're celebrating a pagen feast. Not his sainthood.
The other thing I really hate about "the day that shall not be named" is the hype that makes a person think that this is the one day to talk about love. In a relationship, love should continue to grow each day. There shouldn't be one day that you "have" to say how much you love someone. Is it really "love" if it is expected or forced? I won't even go into my theories on modern "love," needless to say. V-Day is stupid.
I suppose I have been bitter in the past of those people in "loving" relationships on this day. However I truly believe my feelings would be the same regardless off what my relationship status was on any one given day. I personally feel more lonely on the 4th of July than on Valentines. Because what fun is blowing stuff up if you can't share it with someone. What good are "oooh's" without someone to add an "aaaahhh" ?
So anyone free for the 4th of July?
P.S. Check out this link for more on the problems with V-Day: